Have you experienced any of these symptoms in the past week?
- Cough ___
- Sore Throat ___
- Aching Muscles ___
- Headache ___
- Suicidal Thoughts ___
- Rash ___
- Earache ___
This particular litany of maladies was clearly odd because 1) the range of symptoms (soup to nuts/skin to brain) was so random and 2) the range of seriousness. (“ingrown toenail” to “hearing voices”) was ridiculous. But the truth was that I had indeed experienced “suicidal thoughts.” I wonder if everyone has these thoughts at some point in life.
Some depression is situational (my mom died) and some is biological (my brain isn’t working) but depression is a killer of both souls and bodies. According to this article by the American Medical Network, “up to 15% of individuals with severe Major Depressive Disorder die by suicide.” We grieve today one of those deaths.
Robin Williams was a famous person, but there are many others who are not famous who will die by suicide in 2014 – an estimated 14 deaths per 100,000 people. There’s a concern that – with Robin Williams’ suicide – others will consider this possibility as a clear choice. Please, God, no.
This Washington Post article speaks to this, expressing concern that the viral sharing of “Genie, you’re free” on social media will move others to seek their own freedom from the earthly pain of depression. I’ve been there. Sometimes we just want the pain to be over.
Our job as human beings includes sitting with people in their pain. We cannot fix each other’s pain. We cannot take it from someone. But we can stick around – which is not an easy task. I believe this is what God has done among us.
Please contact a hotline if you are having suicidal thoughts. And help someone who is stuck in hell.
Image from the movie What Dreams May Come which was not one of Robin Williams’ best, but the storyline is timely: A man dies and goes to heaven. His despondent wife commits suicide as a result of her grief and she goes to hell. But he risks remaining in hell forever trying to get her into heaven.